Monday, April 23, 2012

The school of Life; Realist and Heartache

Viewing life, I could somehow analogize it as a long-duration school. Yes, life is stages of lessons which can be both refining and drowning one. Born, grow, getting old and die are inevitable phases that all people gotta undergo. Can any of us escape? I don’t reckon so. In a stage of growing there are many sub-phases that we also have to face. Futures-seek, to mention in broad category, is a confusing and energy consuming for many people (most people). Here, we are demanded to survive, decide and face the future-risks/results in our stormy inner and outside
turbulence. Well, that’s life, a lesson. For me, people may advise but I have full charge to decide. You?
In this sort of situation, we (I) are pushed to always be a realist, one who thinks realistically (I made up my own word I guess). This somehow (I fully realize)might cause heartache to some people, including me myself indeed. Though, I now understand that in certain cases we have to put away our realistic side. Why? Because some things need feelings, not simply brain. As I have believed that heart and brain are created to complement each other, whereas I have too much used my brain (that I suffer from hair-loss, perhaps :D).
Having had a long and deep discussion with Spec, I realized that I have been too much ruled by my brain and given of my feelings aside. Indeed. It is so me to be this way, for I have been this way for nearly the whole of my life and may be have also caused many heartache. Beneficial for me to anticipate from any heartache, but putting others in a continual ache during their times with me, I guess. Realizing this situation, I feel pathetic. Why couldn’t I make my life more meaningful in certain ways, not only for my own self but also people around me? May be it’s another lesson I get from this school called as life,hey?
Well, what about doing our (my) current portion the best we can (Spec)? Enjoy each moment given and struggling for a more meaningful future life. Each situation and trial we have surely has their own reason to come up. Simply like they have their own power to refine each of us to be stronger (when we take a lesson) or drown us into weakness (when we have no faith to lean on). Both and collective joy and happiness will surely be granted when we study regularly, do our daily task, have some discussions and do each examination our best, just like in school as this life is like a school, right? One thing to be kept in mind is that there will always be consequence for every decision/answer we make at school. Be responsible is the main thing to be insisted in every of us (me, Spec, you all).

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